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A Story About Friendship, Colorism, and Finding Your Own Light Every so often, a story rises up those refuses to wait. It taps your shoulder, interrupts your plans, and whispers, “Tell me next.” That’s exactly how The Shade Between Us  found me. This upcoming young adult novel — releasing in 2026  — is one of the most personal projects I’ve written, because it explores a topic that shaped so many of our lives yet rarely gets the space, care, and nuance it deserves: the strugg

Life has a way of shifting in ways we never expect. One day you’re balancing the usual load of career responsibilities and family commitments, and the next you’re thrust into the role of caregiver for a terminally ill loved one. It’s a role many of us never prepare for, yet it can reshape every part of our daily lives. For Black women in particular, the expectations to “hold it all together” are immense. We’re often the backbone of our families and communities, even when our

For many women, menopause arrives at the exact moment life feels the busiest. We’re raising children, caring for parents, pushing forward in our careers, and carrying responsibilities in our communities—all while facing changes in our own bodies and minds. It’s a lot. Before we go further, I want to be clear: I’m not a doctor, and I don’t offer medical advice. What I share here is meant to encourage and empower you with faith, community, and practical resources. If you’re exp

In a world obsessed with image, speed, and surface-level success, it's easy to drift. We chase degrees, jobs, applause, even relationships—only to feel hollow afterward. That’s because fulfillment doesn’t come from motion; it comes from mission . And mission is born from purpose. What Is a Purpose-Driven Life? A purpose-driven life is not just about doing good things—it's about doing the right things  for the right reasons . It’s rooted in clarity, intentionality, and callin

There’s a quiet myth floating around our culture that by 40, you should have it all figured out—your career, your relationships, your calling. But what if 40 is actually the beginning ? What if it’s not a crisis, but a call? For many of us, 40 hits like a mirror: Am I fulfilled? Am I on the right path? What do I really  want? And if the answer is “I don’t know anymore,” you’re not broken—you’re awakening. The Power of Starting Over Starting over at 40 isn't failure. It's stra

Let’s get real for a minute.

You changed. They say it like it’s a bad thing. You start waking up earlier. Saying no more often. Protecting your peace like your rent depends on it. Suddenly, people who used to be close are squinting at your light like it’s too bright. Some go silent. Others throw shade dressed up as jokes. “Oh, look at you being all fancy  now…” “Don’t forget where you came from.” Let me say this loud for the people in the back: growth will expose relationships that were only ever comfort

We’ve all been there. You get bumped into, and without thinking, you say, “I’m sorry.” You contribute to a meeting and quickly follow with, “Sorry, I just wanted to add—” You set a necessary boundary and feel compelled to explain with, “I’m sorry, but I just can’t.”

In a world brimming with demands, pressures, and expectations, mastering the art of saying no can feel overwhelming. Yet, embracing this powerful word can unleash a wave of freedom and self-awareness. When we learn to say no effectively, we carve out time for what truly matters to us, allowing our lives to flourish. This blog post explores the significant benefits of saying no, practical strategies for doing so, and how this simple act can lead to a more satisfying life.